Fwd: Don't marry anybody out of pity.

By Akinrinsola Olamide

No matter what they did for you, if you're not convinced in your heart that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, Don't marry them.

It's better to be called wicked and heartless than to live an unhappy married life, trust me it's not worth it.

You send a girl to school and took care of her family's warefare isn't enough reason for her to marry you if she doesn't want to especially if you didn't make your reason for helping her known right from the start.

Because you stayed with him when he had nothing till he made something out of his life, you stole and did all what not to care for him when he was down doesn't mean he must marry you as long as he didn't promise you marriage from the beginning.

But then again, it is wicked and dubious to accept someone's proposal because of what you stand to gain from them only to turn your back and back out after you've gotten what you wanted or gotten to a stable point in life.

She/he says they'll commit suicide if you don't marry them and because you don't want their blood to be upon your head you marry a nutcase, you will continue to live in bondage in that marriage and I'm sure you don't want that.

Truth is, even if they accepted to marry you, they can change their minds. Yes it hurts, you'll feel used but hey! We are humans and are prone to change our minds.

And if you know you won't marry somebody don't go taking advantage of their love for you, don't allow them spend on you and your family.(I now believe in karma) so avoid karma from visiting you.

Still, marrying someone out of pity is very regrettable.

Let men judge, God will Judge his own.